When it comes to knowing what makes your partner tick in the bedroom, tutorials on “mind-blowing s.e.x positions” only get you so far. Below are some tips from her new book on how to overcome common s.e.x issues.
7. Tell Him What Turns You On
Research suggests that better communication is key to better s.e.x, and no, we don’t necessarily mean dirty talk. Communicating what you like and don’t like can be instructional and informative as you get to know each other’s bodies. If he’s doing something you like, say so rather than relying on ambiguous gestures or noises. And if it’s something you’re not into, communicate that or guide him in a new direction. Want to try a different angle? Suggest one. If simultaneous orgasm is your goal and you’re close to climax1ng, don’t be mum about it.