If you want to turn on your boyfriend and think you’ve done it all, you haven’t. The good news is that there are still territories left uncharted.
Most women don’t really believe that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Sure, he likes someone who can cook, but he isn’t going to fall in love with a Julia Child. When it comes to knowing how to turn on your boyfriend, it isn’t just about s.e.x either.
A man wants to feel unconditionally loved the same way that you do. He just has a harder time expressing himself.
The best way to turn your boyfriend on is a mixture of being the girl next door, the caregiver, and a freak in the bed. I know, it sounds exhausting, but it doesn’t have to be. To turn him on, it just takes overhauling your mindset and thinking about his needs the way you think about your own.
How to turn on your boyfriend: 15 ways to do it right
Consider all the things that mean the most to you in a relationship and translate it into “man language.” Even if it makes you uncomfortable, sometimes you need to put yourself into someone else’s shoes to get to know them and figure out what turns them on most.
1. #1 S.e.xting.
Sexting is highly underrated. The next time you want to connect with your guy, don’t send him a passive aggressive text trying to get his attention. Really get his attention.
Sending him a note telling him you are going to wrap your mouth around his penis tonight is much more effective than asking “Why don’t we have s.e.x anymore?”
Guys don’t want questions. They may just push him further away. Send him something naughttty and skip the drama to turn him on.